doing anal

[Jack]

well its a simle question how do i get my gf to do anal, she wont she say it sounds nasty and sugestions

[voiceofgoliath]

lick her asshole, just like you would her pussy. this has never failed for me. just take a shower together and get her going and then go down on her. while your down there, slowly work your way to the back door and go to work, after maybe 10 mins, try your luck, but don't ask first, just gently stand up and try to manuever it in there. good luck.

[garv]

yeah outter ass stimulation can often get them interested.

[lilweezy]

yeah because if you give them time to think about it i might not happen but if you just do it like he seid she will just go with it and if she don't like then she will let you now!

[JBear]

I had a friend who tried to have anal sex with his gf, but couldn't do it because her butthole was so tight. Just a warning - you might not be able to do it even if she lets you. It's also very painful for her, lol.

[dist1089]

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[cheesewiz]

well definetly lube it up really well.inside and out. pussy juice or your spit just wont do. the hornier she is the looser her ass will be.

[LoveVSthongs]

also if she is able to cum twice then after the first one her ass hole wont be as tight. use LOTS OF LUBE i can NOT tell you enough!!!! she wont do it again if its to painful the first time!!! also use your fingers, start out with one and go SLOW then try two, after that try three but go slow, also LUBE your fingers!!! just LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE

use baby oil is a step under cum, but you cant always use cum :( it works the best!!

[DKB]

My girlfriend was reluctant to do anal at first. Basically we talked about it and I said I would like to try it. We agreed that we would go slow and that she can stop anytime. We then went out and picked up some lube. During foreplay I would use some of the lube and rub around down there with my fingers without going in. She admitted it felt odd but good at the same time. Eventually she became comfortable with me rubbing her down there and we tried using my fingers. Even today she claims that using my fingers hurt... so I would recommend a small, smooth toy instead. After she got use to a little penetration we went all the way with it. Now it's one of our favorite ways to end a romp.

My best advice is to let her know you are interested, be patient, don't force, go slow and get a toy meant for that area.

[TheAnalogKid]

My ex basically just told me to put it in one night.

[toom_of_the_boom]

Lol one of your guys' stories reminds me about what my friend was telling me not long ago. Any ways he has this really tiny gf that was a virign before fucking with him, so he got too used to that tight feeling. Now she is loose as fuck, so naturally he wanted to switch to a tighter hole. Dude is dumb as fuck, he tells me for 10 mins they tried to get going...with no fucking lube! Just a bit of slob from a BJ. Lube is essential...

[Cindy Haynes]

If any guy springs anal contact on his girlfriend without warning, she should show him the door.
Having said that, let me go on to emphasize that anal sex can feel great. It certainly does for me. My boyfriend fucks me in the ass regularly — it's an important part of our sex life — and I can take his full 9 inches, and it feels wonderful. The secret is to learn to relax, which is easy to do once you know how enjoyable it can be. The second thing is to use a good lube that suits your needs. We use Astroglide frequently, it works well, but if you both want a prolonged fuck, it's better to use a non-water based lubricant. It's a lot more slippery and it lasts and lasts. However, it is messier to clean up.

[britney]

for me it depends on the mood and the guy. If he takes it slow and such it can be awesome. It can be painful and horrible too though. Use lots of lube.

[garv]

hahaha no lube, one of my exes told me of the time her partner had tried it with no lube. oh she didn't even let him near her pussy for 3 weeks after that.

[Jack]

ok use lube gotcha, is like lotion ok?

[Jack]

well i finaly got to do it, it felt pretty awesome:pbj: but she still was sore n such, i had to eventually stop, so i presume more lube and maybe more use of fingers?

[DKB]

Congrats. Hopefully you both enjoy it enough to continue doing it in the future.

It will probably take her a little while to get use to it. My girlfriend was tender for a couple of days the first time we did anal, but eventually it got to the point where it did not get sore at all. I guess it has something to do with becoming more relaxed with it and maybe stretching a little

[Beef777]

personnaly, I've never done anal. Is it worth it?

Peace out

[DKB]

Um... giving or receiving?

My girlfriend and I have had anal sex many times and I think it is worth trying. It may not be everyone's cup of tea, but you might like it! You will never know until you try!

Can't compliment on the receiving part personally, though she says she enjoys it (just not as much as vaginal sex)

[Beef777]

Giving for me and I wanted to have an impression for my gf, her receiving. Thank you, I'll talk to her about that. Its been a little while since I first taught about giving it a try.